I’m waiting for my particulate filter for 4 months

I’m waiting for my particle filter 4 months and the vw dealership tells me I should still be patient for how long??? have bought the V10 tdi from those in December and still wait for the filter someone from you has had to wait so long, too,? I can’t drive in with the almost nowhere because everything around me are environmental zones what should I do that can give you that please around your experiences with it if present