Connect daytime running light, pulse current at passing beam

Hello, someone knows this problem. Have bought a day running light 2 in 1, i.e. fog lights and day running light in the accessories trade. If instead of the fog lights are installed, fit also perfectly with the brackets. Problem is now, as soon as I connect the module to the Plus cable of the Ablelllichtes go out the day running lights, but they should only go out if I turn on the stand light. Have telephoned with the manufacturer, and this meant this with modern vehicles always a Pulse current (crack current) in which cable can be to the dipped-beam, and thus the TFG module receives the pulse the light is switched on, so turn off daytime running light. Rat de Mannen, switch a work relay between dipped-beam connection and module. Now my question, has someone had this problem before, or a relay between it, which only closes at full power output? I also found a relay on the Internet “Kfz-Relais FiC FRC5BA-DC12V 12 V/DC 1 Working contact 30 A 14 V/DC”, but am not sure if this is right and how it is then connected.