Family car – VOLVO yes/no – feasible ???

Dear community, please for your valuable opinions and experiences ! I am looking for a new family car at the beginning of next year, worth putting on a lot of space, quality/equipment and durability ! Drive at the moment a BMW E46 Touring 320d, which I really like, but is too old and far too small ! I drive in the year so between 20,000-25,000 km and therefore tend to a diesel unit, also because of the driving feeling. I think a car which is 2-3 years old and up to max. 50,000km the watch would be quite nice, with min. 150hp should be attached and such things as seat heating, cruise control, full climate, xenon should be with me already } I can pay a maximum of 20,000,-EUR. Now I have been driving such a chic Volvo XC60 through the field of view and now I am so not at all familiar with the topic Volvo – clearly I know that you say Volvo very much, to be very safe but otherwise ?? How about the engine, is this completely all Volvoown construction or buy the d he engines somewhere a ?? What does it look like with durability of the engine, are they also as reliable as German engines, so I can normally also easily tear down some 250,000km and more ?? Have read that the rather a little more should consume ?? Is that true ?? What does it look like with the quality in general, what else can you say about Volvo – which PRO’s and which CONTRA’s are there ?? And at the very end – is such an XC 60 with my specifications at all realisi Can I or should I better get this out of my head, because for me too expensive ?? And do you have other good or better suggestions for my budget ???VIELEN DANK AN EUCH ALL PREPARATION !