Touring sportsmen

Moin moin! Sorry, but I have to ask for your wisdom again… Just to tune in: Prehistory I noticed quickly (relatively) that the BMW R850R is nothing for me. a) up to 120km/h ok, up to 150km/h naja and over very annoying. b) at once my wife wants to ride with me (!?! wtf) and for that MIR are the 71PS too little. Anyway, I could sell her back with profit again. But mainly it is about my work path. approx. 60km per distance. approx. 50km BAB and 10km city. Definitively w I will test the BMW R1100 and K1200/1100. Since I know only poorly in the big world of motorcycles I wanted to ask you about alternatives that fit to my profile. -Right a lot of BAB -from time to time -kardan and ABS (no need) -about 3000€ (originally I wanted to spend 1000€… ) Thank you!