Need help with front fog lamps 850/V70

Hello people now I really need help otherwise my wife will kill me!!! I have installed the Relay 201 with my V70 today and the NSW tries but it does not do anything. I called at the call if these have to be unlocked, also negative! So now I checked with the 850er my wife whether I have forgotten something and since the funzen also yours no more. I only removed the bridge once and immediately installed the Relay 201(J) and now yours no more. Safety is all right except there is another one than the 17 with the v70 or 18 with the 850er. Where have I made my mistake or what I did wrong it probably can not be because I have not disconnected the battery. Help or she makes me a head shorter.