2x flashed on red

Hello motor-talkers, as the question shows, we were flashed when we crossed one from yellow to red switching traffic light. I don’t know if it was longer than 1sec. At the first flash one looked directly into the camera without knowing that it was there. At the second flash the hand was held in front of the mouth in fear. Sounds strange, reflex of the disfiguration, please not evaluate, haha, I find it funny myself. We = my cousin and I, the cousin drove, I was on the Backseat. The car is allowed on my husband, that means he gets mail. To my regret, my cousin looks like me, both long brown hair, glasses, etc. Family just. The difference is in the place of residence, I live in Germany, my cousin in Chile. My question: how would you proceed after receiving the letter? Should my husband write that his wife’s cousin has driven or made use of his private law? Does he have it at all? If the second, like Is it going to go on? Does he have to give the address of my cousin and she gets the notification sent to Chile? She is about to move, what if the notification cannot be delivered? And what if further mail can no longer be delivered to my husband because we also move to abroad in 6 weeks? With such a high penalty (also thanks to the change in May 2014!) is not relaxed. I am also afraid that from the photo to my person locked we are very grateful for all the answers and suggestions. and YES, a mistake was made that all the participants and the non-participants know, we have listened to enough criticism, but we can’t change it anymore. By the way, pedestrians or cyclists didn’t stand at the traffic lights, only a car next to us was so smart and could watch the light play from behind. We hope however, that YOU can help us further, de nn You are critical, ironic but full of knowledge!