Search reliable, sporty and family-friendly combo that is not too expensive in maintenance

Hello together, after I have delivered my beloved BMW e39 now, I am looking for a new (used) vehicle. I have the following requirements: – reliable – relatively sporty especially regarding the optics – family-friendly – the maintenance (consumption, repairs, tax, insurance) should remain within the scope – if possible an automatic transmission – whether diesel or petrol is in principle not important to me (have a driving performance of approx. 14,000 km p.a.) – Budget: max. 13,000,- € I thought again Direction Kombi and have looked more or less optically at the following vehicles: 1. Audi A4 Avant 2.0 TFSI e.g.:http://suche.mobile.de/…/216662891.html?… 2. VW Passat Variant 2.0 TDI DPF DSG Highline e.g.: http://suche.mobile.de/…/207184506.html?… Since I don’t have much knowledge of engines and technology etc., I am very dependent on an exchange of experience and advice here in the forum. Do you have recommendations for me?