Simson S51 Dimming and driving beam problem

Hey freaks, I have a question about my lighting. I drive CNC handlebar fittings with normal push buttons with rest function (so no pushbuttons). To do this, a vape with H4 headlights. This combination eliminates the possibility of dipping and separating the main light. High beam works seperately (a light turn in the bulb lights). When switching to dipped light, however, both glows glow and the bulb gets so hot that it breaks after a short time. a cable goes to Ignition lock Kl.56 (as original white/black), from terminal 56 a cable (yellow) goes to 56B dipped light on the headlight or bulb. From the headlight or bulb 56A (remote light) the cable goes to the switch in the armature. Mass is fetched directly from the frame. Do I have the possibility to switch here by means of a relay circuit so that both work separately again and in the case of dipped light does not light the main light light turner? If yes, can someone give me the possibility to switch i help the relay circuit?