Muti damage to MCV

after a kindergarten mutti in the corresponding parking lot last month demolished a mirror and ran away (unfortunately unrecognized, including tax cost 75 Euros) hit me again such a car park bump. Her bumper has scrambling right at the shock edge of the driver’s door. But that wouldn’t be the problem, because the scratch on the bar doesn’t bother me. But the door is “dried”. The escape at the doors above is no longer right. Slowly I really did it The driver must have heard that. Since I work from home, I always pick up my son. I’m the only father who picks up his child in this KG all other are women. So the question: what do I do with the door, can you let that be judged or must I live with it. (Full cascade 300 Euros excess)