Young people are coming in March: Tailored Tool or Nappa?

My wife and I are expecting the first offspring in March. This has little surprising effect on our next car: The successor for our V90 CC should be an XC90. I can hardly imagine a better family transporter both in terms of space and safety. In the V90 CC we have the wonderfully comfortable nappa leather seats, with which we are very satisfied apart from the tendency to fold. Enemy. We find the Tailored Tool seats extremely pretty, but we also ask ourselves good to clean them. The ban on eating in the car will probably not be maintained with the little one. 🙂 On the other hand, the Nappa leathers are perforated, which does not seem optimal to us either. Are my concerns about the Tailored Wool seats justified or the Nappa leather seats the better choice?