all broken I’m desperate, help

Hello, so I have a huge problem, one of you can give me a advice… I have nen escort 1.6 l 16v 90 ps bj 93 with 160000 km now I put it on a traffic island then the crossbar and the coupling bar was crooked. I repaired that. then he got new mature and an 80/50 sprt suspension. and now the track and the crash no longer makes sense that my new mature are so awesome that they threaten to burst on the inside and I don’t at all judge any more g can drive because everything swims. in the wekstatt they told me that one can not adjust the crash with this escort model. moreover, my cool leak is, he lost water, became hot and now it bubbling in the water expansion vessel. then they told me it was the head seal broken. yes looks like that. I just don’t know what to do now. should I scrap it?? I’m azubi I can’t afford a new car and the repairs were probably not. Rat, please…