Do women also drive the XC90 ?

Hello, we had almost decided for the Q7, but I (woman) did not get along in the parking garage with the long length and the one-piece huge cargo compartment flap swings so high that I didn’t get to it anymore. But we don’t want the electric flap because it is too insecure for us (especially if children are under it). Now maybe the XC90 would be something for us. Is there women who have already driven the Volvo here in the forum, how can you handle it in the parking garage and is it clear? I also believe that women drive just as good cars as men, but they certainly pay attention to other things. Juss