BMW M235i or VW Golf 7 R

Servus together, maybe you can also advise me a little bit. At the moment I drive a VW Golf GTI Edition 35. Now the lease contract expires after 4 years and I now stand before the decision between “geil” or “geil” ;D Short still to me: I drive quite a lot of car and also very sporty but with brains. Therefore sportiness stands with sufficient comfort in the first place and less the optics, however it also contributes to my decision. The BMW M235i with rear drive and the VW Golf 7 R with all-wheel drive both in blue and with adaptive suspension. In short, what are the advantages and disadvantages for me and what I would change for both.Vehicle: BMW M235i with rear drive and 8-speed automatic (sampling is still pending)Advantages: – 3 liters 6 cylinders – That it is a BMW – Driveless front wheels – Rear drive – Balanced load distribution – Engine sound – Curves hold – real hand brake lever – According to the internet in my surroundings good service – maintenance+repair 90€/monthDisadvantages: – traction in rain and snow bad (also tyre dependent) – price (about 150 € more leasing rate compared to the R)Planned tuning measures: – M Performance blocking differential (experience with it?) – M Performance exhaust system vehicle: VW Golf 7 R20 with all-wheel drive and DSG (even test drives)Advantages: – Horny all-wheel drive, rear-stressed as e.g. with S3, little understeer – traction – Understatement – Price – Maintenance+Repair 20€/monthDisadvantages: – Some tame optics – Electric hand brake – Poor servicePlanned tuning measures: – ABT Chiptuning+Emission system on 400 hp Both cars have their charms for me and are both really great vehicles in their class, which is why the decision is very difficult for me. Maybe you can give me a little constructive advice Greetings Henry PS: Please no negative posts like “VW or BMW sucks”, only constructive please